We decided to start a blog about Steven so that everyone who has been so unbelievably kind to our family can be updated on his prognosis as we start the next chapter of his life. I also wanted to do this to have a record of our progress, and this way once he is better, he will have a better understanding of what happened. I hope to update this on a daily basis.
As most of you know, Steven was in a horrific motorcycle accident last night, 5/3 at approximately 11:30 pm. Channel 4 has the story on their website at http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/local/Bike-strikes-guardrail-throws-driver
Steven has a long road ahead of him. He had a left temporal bone fracture and bleed. The surgeon, so I'm told, is one of the best in the area....boy I hope their right. He had to have a mesh plate inserted to repair/replace his skull. He really did not have any other injuries which is unbelievable in my opinion.
Currently he is in a coma due to the head injury. They will continue to keep him in the coma until the swelling in his brain comes down. Once the swelling decreases, we will have a better understanding of what his fate will be. The doctors state that it will be approximately a week before the swelling decreases.
There are so many tubes in him that I was unable to count them all. He has a fever, which did come down slightly today. His lung collapsed while trying to put in a central line for the meds., so they inserted a chest tube to fix the lung. They did say there was a high possibility of this happening.
So...to end today, please pray for him. He needs them more than ever.
Dear Barb and Pat, I can't even imagine your grief right now. Please know you and Steven have a million people praying for your whole family. I am so sorry you are going through this. Sending nothing but hopeful thoughts your way, Allison (Ziolek) Hokinson
ReplyDeleteDear Barb and Pat,
ReplyDeleteI remember when Mom and Dad were hit by the drunk driver on their motorcycle and have an idea of what you are feeling. And all I can tell you is that I am sorry and I hope that God will see him through this. I will be praying for him and you as well. I believe that it will be alright. I love you and miss you. If you need to talk, I'm here for you.
Love Ya
Your Cousin Kelly
Dear Barb and Pat,
ReplyDeleteI am so terribly sorry for the pain your family is going through. Steven and your family will be in my prayers daily.
Deb Wagner
Dear Barb,
ReplyDeleteAs a mother I can only imagine your pain. Our prayers are with you, Steven and the family.
Jackie Tomasello
Dear Barb,
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with your son and your family. Prayer Helps all!!!
Meri Gates
Matthew 19:26 - With God All Things Are Possible
ReplyDeleteDebby & Michelle
hey barb i dont have words to describe how i feel my heart is breaking for you and steven .
ReplyDeletegod speed in his recovery and he comes out of this well....
all my love and prayers
DEbi
Dear Pat, Barb, Steven & Katie,
ReplyDeleteWe have been praying since we heard about Steven's accident. If you need ANYTHING please let us know. Our prayers will continue for all of you.
All of our love & support,
Tim, Jen, Claire & Brody
Barb, I am praying for a speedy recovery. I can't imagine the nightmare you are living. You are in my mind and prayers.
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Aunt Barb, Uncle Pat, Katie..i dont even know what to say other than i love all three of you so much. God will not give him more than he can handle, and i truly believe in that. i have found that prayer goes a longggg way, and i know there are hundreds of people praying for him right now. and Steven, when you are able to read this, i want you to know that i love you so much, the past year has been a crazy ride, and knowing you were and still are there for me makes me one of the luckiest people alive. One day steven, you will be able to look back, give your Experience, Strength, and Hope to help the still suffering in a similar situation. You know what i mean :)
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Tommy
For Barbara and her entire Family;
ReplyDeleteMy prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Diane Novy
Thank you everyone.
ReplyDeleteTommy...stay strong. He is going to need you when he gets better
My heart and prayers go out to him and you guys.
ReplyDeleteSteven, you are in our hearts and prayers. You've just crossed a tremendous hurdle, now with God's help and your courage and toughness you'll come thru this too. Love to you from Mama Clancy and Pop
ReplyDeleteThe Bakers have Steven in their prayers... We love you too!
ReplyDeletexoxo Mo
Barb and Pat we are here for you too!
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers everyday!
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Joe, Valerie, Russ and Jocelyn Rizzo
I am so sad to hear about this tragic accident. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine what you're going through. He will pull through...keep Faith. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteDear Barb, Patrick and Family,
ReplyDeleteWe are praying for Steven to have a speedy recovery. Steven and all of you are in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Love You Guys,
Dave and Pat
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let Steve and I know if there is anything we can do to help out!!!!! I know you have been through hell and back and I am SO happy to hear that Steven is alert and awake.
ReplyDeleteWe love you guys.
Stephanie & Steve
Hi Barb, I know we never met, but i just wanted to say i'm very sorry this accident. I can only imagine how stressful and heartbreaking this time must be for you and your family. But it must be good to know the surgeon is one of best - doctors, and nurses are amazing that's for sure! i'm glad he's in good care. sending positive vibes and prayers to you and your family. sincerely, Danielle, graduate assistant with CDHS Buffalo
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